This time of year can be very stressful for many people. Sometimes I wonder why they are so stressful. Could it be:
*the shopping isn't finished
*you have not had time to cook or prepare for guests
*you can't find the perfect gift
*family members are being difficult and want quality time
These are all good problems to have because it means have family and friends to spend the holidays with but why must we make this joyous occasion about what we can or can not do. I have gone through these stressful times and resented this time of year. I wanted to make everyone around me happy and get the perfect present for the perfect person. The truth is you are not going to make everyone happy all of the time and there will be disappointments. We really should think about the meaning of the holidays. If the holidays mean stress and more stress and that's how you want it then good for you. But many of us celebrate this time of year with different traditions and different religions but one thing does not change and that is Family and True Friends. This time of year should not be about presents or expectations or trivial who's, what's or when's. Each time together or apart should be celebrated with the spirit of joy, good intensions and good times.
The year is full of changes and let us all celebrate the good times of the past, present and future with as little stress as possible. The years come and go but true family and friends are forever. Happy Holidays to all and enjoy every moment because they go by fast.
Get Active,
Dave